When Times Get Tough

I've always been a firm believer in the old saying, "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger". To me it makes perfect sense, because although these things that do not kill you may not make you physically stronger, there is always a lesson to be learned, adding to you mental or emotional strength level. This concept usually applies some time after the event in question has come and gone, and does nothing for us when we are dealing with struggles in life as they happen.

I have no trouble with the "lesson learned" portion of overcoming hard times, but I have all the difficulty in the world dealing with troubles as they are happening. And I'm not just talking about dealing with things that happen directly to me, but moreso with problems that others who are close to me may be having, people who are close to me and need my comfort. That's where I struggle.

It seems that recently, quite a few people close to me have been dealing with difficult situations, and I just don't know how to comfort them. I'm always afraid of saying the wrong thing, which leads me to most often say nothing at all (the worst possible scenario). But I took some time today to think about all of the friends and  family members I know who are struggling with this or that, and came up with something spiritual that shocked me.

Just hang in there!! God allows for trials and tribulations to exist in our lives, and for good reason. Without these difficult times, we would be less likely to see out God, because most people are less likely to talk to the Lord during good times than they are during the bad times. It's a true test of faith.

"These things I have spoken unto you, that in me you might have peace. In the world you shall have tribulation; but be of good cheer; for I have overcome the world."

John 16:33

 The further into the fire of life we travel, and the hotter the flames become, the more shiny and pure the gold will be that awaits us in the end. God will never expose you to more than you can handle. We need to focus on our blessings, we all have them. Count them and add to them each day. Thoughts are powerful weapons, so stay as positive as you can. Focus on helping others, finding others who need a shoulder and being there for them, it will bring you strength and happiness during your own difficult  times.